the plot thins...then thickens again....hmmm....

well....Suga you said had it been you your eyebrow would've been raised....honey let me tell you....my eyebrow almost jumped off my face this past week....

let's just say me and the young'un were officially done...i was through...
if anyone is my facebook/myspace homie you would've peeped the status i had for about 4 days....
"officially over you...."
yep....i had enough and i had to take a stand cause that ex girlfriend was really getting out of control....she was able to find out who i am and began to reall wreack havoc on the possible developing relationship between and the young'un....and let me tell ya folks....i don't mess around with crazy exes....especially considering the me and the young'un were only a maybe....
I told him that until he was able to really really let go of that entire situation....i couldn't do it.....
(yes i am giving him his credit in the situation....folks ain't gonna REALLY keep acting crazy if you aren't fueling their foolishness in SOME way....I mean....really.....)

of course once i gave him my two finger salute(Yes Diana....I actually talked to him about it....even though we both know I was determined to not talk to him again....EVER...EVER!!! LOL!) I began to feel like maybe i was being a little mean I mean after all he is a young'un and he doesn't really know as much about women as he is convinced that he does....

so i broke down and sent him a text asking if he wanted to hang out yesterday(New Year's Day) since he was in town for a minute....why why why why did i think this was a good idea people?!?!
I mean I can't even blame this on being drunk and texting i was completely sober and aware of what I was doing....trying to maintain our friendship....because we still have to interact with one another on a semi-professional level and i wanted to make sure that there would be no ill will.....

We got together yesterday afternoon and hung out....it was a great time except for the fact that I had some Maui Maui that apparently set out too long on NYE....compounded with the drunken debauchery surrounding NYE i was out the game ALL day yesterday....I mean if i didn't know any better I would been running to Walgreens or CVS trying to find out when the little socialite was coming....ya digg?!? however because of my current lifestyle that was out of the question...but I was so ill yesterday I couldn't even stand the motion that it would have taken for me to get home....so we walked around downtown...with him rubbing my stomach and doing everything but holding my hair as i prayed to the porcelain throne(not very uppity...but it's life...) it was hilarious...the congratulatory looks we kept getting everytime i came crawling out the ladies room were a bit much for my soul...but he thought it was funny.....
before we parted ways for the evening we hugged and talked and then we kissed...very nice....very nice....but very not something you are supposed to do with a guy that you have decided to just be friends with....not unless you are friends with benefits maybe...and we are not....

so needless to say that he wanted to come by to check on me once again after i went home....however because of the vast amounts of electrolytes lost yesterday I had to pass on the visitation last evening....

but we are supposed to go out for lunch today....

and i am thinking that maybe i shouldn't....i mean....maybe we should just stick to saying what's up in passing....but.....i'm not sure i wanna.....

dah well.....

lunch is in a couple of hours....maybe i just won't turn my phone back on....