To never depend on other people to validate me. She also told me that on October 19, 1981 8:30am she only had one baby... So that's the person I need to worry about. She also told me the only ass she better catch me kissing is hers cause hers is the only one I'm dependent upon....
As I approach thirty I reflect upon those words... I am often told that I drop people out of my life & existence way too easily for them to have been real friendships but I'm not sure that I agree with that... I think that I understand that friendships truly are for reasons, seasons, or lifetimes and when it is time to bid adieu I'm just more willing to acknowledge that vs sitting around trying to force it to work... I understand that people have their places in our lives for whatever reason they are there but I'm also willing to let folks go... I'm not callous just honest... I'll still wish you a happy birthday make sure I greet you at the turn of the year, but if you have outrun your time in my life I will let you go...
And no this isn't a "warning" that I'm kicking people out... It's simply an acknowledgment that I understand why you & me are not going to speak very much in the future and to acknowledge those whom I haven't spoken to often or at all in the past. I still love you. Jah blessings to you in your future endeavors. Respect to your familia... Growth overstanding & wisdom....
Freedom...
Be at peace with the fluidity of the journey...
But for now in this time... Our time has ended....
From God's Lips to Mine....
As I approach thirty I reflect upon those words... I am often told that I drop people out of my life & existence way too easily for them to have been real friendships but I'm not sure that I agree with that... I think that I understand that friendships truly are for reasons, seasons, or lifetimes and when it is time to bid adieu I'm just more willing to acknowledge that vs sitting around trying to force it to work... I understand that people have their places in our lives for whatever reason they are there but I'm also willing to let folks go... I'm not callous just honest... I'll still wish you a happy birthday make sure I greet you at the turn of the year, but if you have outrun your time in my life I will let you go...
And no this isn't a "warning" that I'm kicking people out... It's simply an acknowledgment that I understand why you & me are not going to speak very much in the future and to acknowledge those whom I haven't spoken to often or at all in the past. I still love you. Jah blessings to you in your future endeavors. Respect to your familia... Growth overstanding & wisdom....
Freedom...
Be at peace with the fluidity of the journey...
But for now in this time... Our time has ended....
From God's Lips to Mine....
No comments:
Post a Comment
talk to me......